Here is a brief guide on how to navigate holiday plans as a separated parent.
Planning ahead
Where possible, plan ahead. Discuss holiday plans with your ex-partner in advance and get the arrangements in writing so both parties are happy with what is proposed.
If an agreement can’t be reached a child arrangements order could be something to think about. We advise parents to try and mutually agree through direct discussions the arrangements for children.
You do not have to do any official paperwork if you agree on arrangements.
However, if you do wish to make your agreements legally binding, a solicitor can help with the paperwork by drafting a consent order.
A consent order is a legal document that confirms your agreement. It can include details about how you’ll look after your children, such as:
- where they live
- when they spend time with each parent
- when and what other types of contact take place (phone calls, for example)
Flexibility
It is important that parents work together and be flexible as this reduces the possibility for any confrontation. Be open to compromise when planning holidays. It’s important to put your child’s needs first, so try to come up with a schedule that works for everyone and be open to considering your ex’s point of view.
Communication
Keep communication channels open with your ex-partner during the holidays. Use written communication methods where possible, as these are easier to refer to in case of any disputes.
Calm
Holidays can be a strange time for children of separated parents, as they might witness or sense disputes between them. Try to make things as easy as possible for your child by remaining civil with the other parent if possible.
Contact us
For further advice, please contact our specialist family law team on 01792 468684 or email enquiries@pgmsolicitors.co.uk.
