The New Year is a time for resolutions, fresh starts, and big decisions. For many people, it’s also the time to address issues in their personal lives that have been lingering for a little too long. January has become known as ‘Divorce Month’ in the media, due to the significant rise in divorce enquiries.
Several factors contribute to the January surge in cases. Understanding these can help you recognise if now is the right time to make the decision.
The festive season can amplify cracks in a relationship. Many couples stay together through the holidays for the sake of their children or to avoid disrupting family gatherings. Once the New Year begins, however, they feel it’s time to face reality and make a fresh start.
New Year’s resolutions – The New Year inspires people to set goals for self-improvement and happiness. For some, this includes letting go of an unhappy marriage and focusing on building a better future for themselves.
Practical timing – January offers a practical window for starting divorce proceedings. Many families have already settled year-end financial matters, and the start of a new calendar year provides clarity for planning for the future.
Emotional readiness – The turn of the year often brings a sense of closure to lingering doubts or fears about ending a marriage. This emotional readiness, combined with the momentum of a New Year, pushes many individuals to take the first step.
What to consider
Deciding to end a marriage is of course a very personal choice, and it’s important to ensure that it’s the right one for you. Here are some factors to think about before proceeding:
Have you explored reconciliation? Consider whether mediation could help resolve issues in your relationship. Many couples find that honest communication and professional guidance can provide clarity, whether it leads to reconciliation or confirms the decision to separate.
Understand the legal process – Divorce can be complex, especially when children, property, and finances are involved. At PGM Solicitors, we’ll guide you through every step, explaining your rights and responsibilities clearly.
Gather your financial information – It’s essential to have a clear picture of your financial situation before starting divorce proceedings. Organise documents related to income, assets, debts, and expenses to ensure a smooth process.
Children – If you have children, consider what arrangements might work best for their wellbeing. Co-parenting plans and custody agreements should prioritise their needs.
How we can help
We understand that no two divorces are the same. Whether your separation is amicable or not, we provide tailored advice to suit your unique circumstances.
If you’re considering divorce this January, know that you’re not alone. Thousands of people use the New Year as an opportunity to make positive changes in their lives. We’re here to help you navigate this challenging time and achieve the fresh start you deserve.
